Ramblings, recollections, realizations, and possible rantings of a mom, who has found it is only possible, when you are Grounded in God!

Monday, February 20, 2012

So what am I referring to...


I keep making reference to preparing me for what is ahead.  Of course, there are things that I don’t know about, but there are also those things that have happened in the last few months that I know God has been preparing me for by reminding me that I have to be grounded in Him in order to have any strengthen at all to survive, endure, and handle it all.

Being a pastor’s wife, there are a lot of ups and downs that you face.  There are definitely days that you don’t feel like putting on a happy face and being around anyone but you have too. You have to be ready to take on a variety of activities and projects, even if you have never done it before and you don’t know what you are doing or if you will have any volunteers.  But, the hardest part is when a move is needed to be made and you have to start the process of looking for new churches and the secrets, etc that come along with it.  So, I am at this point right now.  We have had to be in this process with the secrets, uncertainty, and scary and exciting thoughts about a new place and adventure. 

We have been in our current location for not quite 3 years.  The best part of this location has been that I have been close to my family.  Before this point, we lived far from any family, and when we had our first child, it was very difficult.  There were also a lot of things going on that made me feel very isolated.  I knew when we were blessed with this opportunity to be close to family, it wouldn’t be forever.  But, knowing that thought and having it as a reality are two completely different things. 

As I was nearing the end of my healing process and expecting life to return back to normal, we received the call of an interview that puts us in another state.  I have done everything you can imagine to fight this.  Not only is it the distance, but it is in a small town, which is much different from where we are.  I have spent many days sad about leaving family and the wonderful friendships that we have made.  But, at the same time, there is a peace that we are following God’s lead in our lives.  Of course, there are moments when I question it. 

Last week, in a Bible Study I am doing, the following verses were part of the study:
“Rejoice in the Lord always.  Again I will say, rejoice!  Let your gentleness be known to all men.  The Lord is at hand.  Be Anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.” – Philippians 4:4-7
The study had us work through these verses in turning our anxieties to peace.  Of course, I thought of my current situation and anticipating a change and move.  Through working through those words, I was able to redirect myself back to God’s word and at least vocalize the elements of my worry.  I am not saying that I don’t think about it or get anxious, but I am able to pull on these verses and others and allow myself to be grounded in it, especially as we move forward and see what the next month or so brings!  So, change is probably imminent, anxiety is high, but God, has reminded me that I can only do anything when I do it through Him!

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